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Tales from the other side – Scary hairy problems!

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Greying hair, thinning hair, dry hair, and hair sprouting in random places where it has no business being. There’s no doubt that the accumulation of years has a direct effect but does menopause have anything to do with these changes? Well, yes and no. Let’s take each one in turn.

To dye or not…

Greys, or as I prefer to call them, my platinum highlights (or inner unicorn showing through), are purely down to normal ageing. No amount of HRT, lotions or potions is going stop this from happening so you can either embrace it or dye it. At the moment highlights are not exactly numerous so I’m in the ’embrace it’ camp… for now. I may need to revisit this stance the more my inner unicorn becomes my outer unicorn. I might dye it… but it’s more likely I’ll leave it well alone.

That said, I am looking forward to autumn, when I have some warm highlights added for the dark months of the year. Last year, those highlights were enhanced with pillar-box red. I have to confess, the colour palette my hairdresser put together looked terrifying as raw dyes, but the end result was worth my bravery. I guess the more unicorn I go, the less likely I am to stay in the warm part of the spectrum… maybe I’ll enhance my future greys with vibrant blues, greens and purples!

If you do decide to colour your hair there are some fabulous products out there designed to keep your colour looking fresh while nourishing your hair. A weekly hair mask is a must. Picture the scene in the Dean household. It’s the Sunday evening. My hair is smothered in mask, covered with a clear plastic shower cap (probably acquired from a hotel) and my face is layered with a moisturizing mask…. double masking! As the facial mask is an opaque cream all you can see from a distance is the gaps around my eyes and mouth! I am ready to scare the heck out of any unsuspecting visitor!

While I wait for the masks to do their thing, it gives me time to chill out with a gin and tonic or glass of wine. Now that’s what I call multi-tasking.

Thinning – so far for me this isn’t a problem but I know other women who are losing their crowning glories either overall or in patches. Menopause may well be the culprit in some cases but it’s always wise to visit your doc for a check-up just to be sure nothing else is going on such as thyroid issues. The only time I’ve experienced hair loss was after the kiddos were born – hormones to blame yet again!

Dry hair – so far, again, I have escaped this but I have noticed that my hair has moved from needing a wash every other day down to once or twice a week. Occasionally my scalp itches but I’ve found a lovely scalp itch relief product from Aveda works well, and a little goes a long way. It might seem a wee bit expensive but as I’m not spending as much on shampoo and conditioner these days, it’s worth it. As I am blessed with shoulder-length wavy hair, I leave my hairdryer in the drawer during the spring/summer months to avoid overheating the hair. Some days this works well, others see me looking wild and windswept!

Random sproutage! …. I used to be a regular monthly visitor to the beauty salon for deforestation/leg, underarm and bikini waxing. Nowadays I can go two months between appointments. Mind you, I am finding hair sprouting up in unexpected places. The other day I was using a magnifying mirror to hunt down a few straggly eyebrow hairs when I started examining the rest of my face. OMG! Bad idea. A normal mirror is fine but the magnifier will show you stuff you didn’t even know was there. Blocked pores, wrinkles like canyons, and, horror of horrors, a bloody great black hair under my chin! I tell you what, that bad boy was yanked out with the brow tweezers before I could think rationally if this was a good idea. Time will tell. If it comes back and brings siblings, I’ll know it was a bad idea. And while I’m on the subject, since when do we women need crazy nasal hair? Surely this is a man thing?! Apparently not. Thank you absent hormones.

Whatever hairy issues Mother Nature throws at us, I’m sure we will find a way to live with them/fix them/disguise them. Next week I’ll be taking a look and nail and skin health. If you have any tips on dealing with unruly hairy issues, please leave a comment below to share that precious knowledge

2 thoughts on “Tales from the other side – Scary hairy problems!”

  1. I like your particular way of multi-tasking. Especially when confronting the troubles that come with aging. As for dying my hair, I’m what the hair stylists refer to as “gronde”. Sure, this is a made-up term [gray + blonde] but since learning this I’ve put aside all concerns about what color my hair is, knowing that I have a hip new way to describe myself. 😊

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